In Summary

  • But he seems upset about my stand and says things like, “It will strengthen our bond” and all the crazy excuses men give to sleep with a woman.
  • I feel as if he wants to use me and leave me because I experienced that a while back when I was dating.

Hello Mr Kitoto,

I can’t get over my past. I have been single for the past two years after breaking up with my boyfriend.

I have been seeing a new man for three months but the problem is that any time we talk, I find his views on relationships hurtful.

I recently told him we could be good friends and do things together but that we should not have sex until we are married. But he seems upset about my stand and says things like, “It will strengthen our bond” and all the crazy excuses men give to sleep with a woman. I feel as if he wants to use me and leave me because I experienced that a while back when I was dating.

I just feel like ending this relationship immediately.

Please advise.

Hi,

What I can say from the onset is that every person needs love and respect.

It brings great value to the relationship when you know that your partner respects your ideas, feelings and fears.

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