In Summary
  • Imagine you are invited out to dinner and your host greets you at the door with water squelching out of his shoes.
  • He then helps himself to a drink without offering you one. 
  • During dinner he repeatedly loads up his fork with food, lifts it to his face but keeps his mouth firmly shut and instead stuffs the meat-and-two-veg up his nose.

How often do your forget to take your shoes off before getting into the bath?

And when you are eating, how often do you forget to open your mouth to let the food in?

Do you sometimes breathe out, and then breathe out again, and yet again, and wonder why you are starting to feel faint?

Now, if you think those are silly questions, try these: When you are driving and want to change lanes or turn, do you ever forget to check your mirror and indicate? At night, when another car is approaching from the opposite direction, or going the same way as you just in front, how often do you forget to dip your lights?

Those questions should be just as silly.  Both sets of questions refer to skills which are well south of rocket science and which should be an automatic reflex for anybody old enough to manage a solo visit to the toilet.

Yet for some bizarre reason, we do not see them that way.

Imagine you are invited out to dinner and your host greets you at the door with water squelching out of his shoes.  He then helps himself to a drink without offering you one. 

During dinner he repeatedly loads up his fork with food, lifts it to his face but keeps his mouth firmly shut and instead stuffs the meat-and-two-veg up his nose.

When ushering you through the sitting room for a cup of coffee afterwards, he pushes you out of the way, places the coffee tray on the chair you were about to sit on,  hands you a cup and then pours the coffee on the carpet.

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