In Summary
  • That you feel a need to go through her phone means that there you have trust issues.
  • You need to work through these first.
  • Do you have a problem to share with Brenda? E-mail: [email protected]

Hey Brenda!

I am in a fix. I have been in a relationship with this woman for two years. I go through her phone regularly and I every time I do, I find that chats between her and several men which makes me lose trust in her. When I ask, she says that nothing is going on. How can I trust her?

What are you doing going through your girlfriend's phone? Her phone is not for you to go through. Personal boundaries are important in a relationship. Your woman is entitled to a life without your relationship.

That you feel a need to go through her phone means that there you have trust issues. You need to work through these first.

And snap out of the clinginess. It's very unattractive on a man.

Do you have a problem to share with Brenda? E-mail: [email protected]