In Summary
  • There could be many answers to your dilemma, but let me try and narrow it down to you. Either the problem is you, or the problem is them.
  • Are you incredibly gullible? Do you keep meeting men in the same places, which is why you keep meeting the same kind of men?
  • Do you have a problem for Brenda? E-mail: [email protected]

Hi Brenda,

I’m 25 and single. In each of the relationships I’ve had in the past, I always end up as the side chick. What I mean by "ending up" is that it always turns out that the guy has a girlfriend a wife somewhere. It’s happened to me four times now and it’s made me want to give up pursuing any relationship at all. The truth is that I long to be in a loving, faithful relationship so tell me, am I being too trusting of people? Is something wrong with me? Am I normal?

Faith

Hey Faith,

There could be many answers to your dilemma, but let me try and narrow it down to you. Either the problem is you, or the problem is them.

Are you incredibly gullible? Do you keep meeting men in the same places, which is why you keep meeting the same kind of men?

Not to say that you can't meet a nice man at the club or a terrible man at the rave, but we all know the places that side chicks and those looking for them frequent. It is an open secret.

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