I will ask for a salary advance just this once.
No you won’t. You will keep going back until it’s a routine. You took a salary advance because at some point, your expenses exceeded income. The solution is rectifying your spend, not continuously being on an advance or other form of debt such as credit cards, loan sharks, personal loans etc.
I am doing well because I have a big income, live in a nice house or drive a big car. But if you lost your income today, how long would you survive on your savings or other assets? That’s how wealthy you are. The rest are distractions.
My home is my biggest investment.
The house you live in may be very nice but it’s not an investment. An investment earns you money. A house that you are renting out is an investment; a house you live in is not. Remember, you need money to sustain the home and yourself in it. Whatever brings in that money is the investment.
A deal will come.
My research tells me most people did not get wealthy on a one-time deal. In fact, those who made instant money through gambling or winning competitions tend to lose it just as quickly. We delay getting our act together because we think that at some unspecified point in time in the future, something equally unspecific will happen and cast us off into financial freedom. The bad news is that it is those unexciting, regular activities like saving, learning, investing, spending wisely, pushing through hard times, being disciplined etc. are what enable you to meet your goals. The good news is that these habits develop your character.
You may relate with some of these or as you take a hard look at yourself, realise there are others. For a long time, I never considered life without a monthly income so I didn’t save. Maybe you don’t think small amounts have value. Do the calculations. Challenge the beliefs behind your financial habits. The reason we find ourselves in the same situations over and over is very likely because we have the same belief keeping us stuck. We are creatures of habit because we are creatures of beliefs.