- A smart guy can level things up by not approaching a girl until he’s seen some sign of real interest in her eyes.
- In real life a big majority of both men and women say they would prefer to have just one steady partner.
We all think we know how men and women behave when they first meet, mostly from films, books and magazines.
But in real life their behaviour is generally much more complicated! Like for example, everyone thinks that women are much choosier than men.
And that they always go for the guys with money. While men go for any girl who looks young, pretty and sexy.
But in reality, things actually depend on who makes the first move. Because both men and women are overcritical when someone new approaches them, and far less fussy when the roles are reversed.
Which puts men at a disadvantage, because they’re generally expected to take the initiative.
A smart guy can level things up by not approaching a girl until he’s seen some sign of real interest in her eyes.
Then in effect she’ll have made the first move, even though he’s still the one who has to go over and say the first words!
Then there is men’s well known willingness to have casual sex. While everyone expects that women will be much more cautious.
And it’s true that most men do leap at pretty much every opportunity, while women take far more persuading.
But if a woman gets an offer from someone who’s familiar, famous or ferociously attractive, she’ll be just as receptive as a man!
You know why? It’s because her subconscious assumes that intimacy will be awkward with an unfamiliar partner.