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I have been in a relationship with a guy since 2013. We’re still together but in 2015, I met another guy and who begged me to give him a chance to try his luck.

I first made him aware of the existence of the other guy and he agreed to be number two just to try his luck. Since last year have been arguing with the first a lot, sometimes he makes me cry a lot but I can't get out of the relationship because I love him.

The second guy is always good, understanding and mature. We don’t even argue that much but my problem is that he comes from Kisii while I come from a different place.

I want to settle down but I don't know who should I settle down with?


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