In Summary
  • I used to cheat a lot; and this went on for years.
  • But last year, I met a girl I really like – a lot.
  • And for the first time, I have dated one girl for a year and I have been faithful to her.
  • Do you have a problem to share with Brenda? Please email: lifeandstyle@ke.nationmedia.com

Hi Brenda,

I used to cheat a lot; and this went on for years. I was a playboy of sorts and my friends called me a serial dater as my relationships only lasted a few weeks or months.

But last year, I met a girl I really like – a lot. I think I’m in love. And for the first time, I have dated one girl for a year and I have been faithful to her.

My problem is, sometimes I still want to go out and have some fun but this scares me as I’m really tempted to cheat. I feel I could fall into temptation and be wayward again.

And sometimes I miss the carefree life of good nights with no strings attached. But I don’t want to hurt my girlfriend because I think she could even be the one. Help.

 

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