In Summary
  • Only you can really decide what you really are and who you choose to be.
  • Don't be afraid of society's labels because at the end of the day you are the one who has to live with yourself.
  • Your conflict is probably one that's prompted by external influences because you have already know what you are attracted to.

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Hi Brenda,

I've been feeling kind of conflicted lately. I'm not gay and the imagination of sex with another man actually disgusts me.

However, I discovered transsexual pornography and the weird thing is, it turns me on and I jerk off to it.

This is why I feel conflicted because even though they have a male organ, am attracted to their femininity and in my mind, if I get a chance to have sex with a hot transsexual, I won't hesitate.

This brings me to my question, does that make me gay? Please help!


Hi Yujiro,

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