In Summary
  • Of course you have expectation – because he is giving you nothing.
  • The point of a relationship is to relate, no?
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Hi Brenda,

I am a very frustrated woman. My partner never seems to tell me what’s on his mind, even when I ask. It’s like he expects me to read his mind or guess what he wants. When I say we should discuss some things, as we live together, he brushes me off. Sometimes he agrees to discuss and tells me to say what I think.

When I do speak, he says I have too much expectation. But he won’t give me a reason or give me his view of the discussion even when I ask him too. Help!



This sounds complicated. Why does your husband think you're psychic? How long have you been married? But communication is essential, no matter how long you've been married.

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