I agree with you – compromise is actually essential to a marriage, and learning how to communicate with each other is too.

A partnership with no compromise is not a compromise at all, and you are simply a doormat or a bully.

There is no room for these in a functioning and fulfilling marriage.

Perhaps it is time to bring in a mediator or a counsellor, so you can re-evaluate your marriage and vows, and figure out how you two got here in the first place with such differing ideals.


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