In Summary
  • Try and identify your deal breakers, and then figure out what you can live with.
  • Partnership is about compromise, after all. Good luck.
  • Do you have a problem to share with Brenda? Please email: lifeandstyle@ke.nationmedia.com

Hello Brenda,

I’m a 30-year-old single man looking for a mature woman for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Please hook me up. My skin is chocolate-coloured and I’m about five feet tall. I graduated with a diploma in HR but I’m currently jobless and trusting God for an opportunity soon. I’m a Luhya and would like to be in a relationship with a Luhya, Luo, Kisii, or Bukusu woman. 
I am outgoing, l love travelling above all, I’m God-fearing. 


Hello Sir,
I'm not quite sure how I can help you, other than publishing your request. But I'm glad you're putting yourself out there, that's the first step. Are there any women in your church, perhaps, that fit this criteria as well who you can meet?

Sometimes the fact that they are in church already points to the commonality in your characters. I would also suggest seeking advice from your married friends about how to go about this sort of thing.

Finally, please remember that no one is perfect, even with your standards. Try and identify your deal breakers, and then figure out what you can live with. Partnership is about compromise, after all. Good luck.

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