Lady, you are wrong. You have been dating this man for two years. He has not made a commitment to you. Until he does, then you are wrong to refer to yourself as his woman. You are not.

Once he makes a commitment to you, then you can start demanding wife privileges. Until then, work for your own pocket money or ask your father for some.

Let me let you in on a secret – independence in a woman is utterly attractive.

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