In Summary
  • On the plus side, there's a chance he'll appreciate your honesty.
  • On the negative side, there's a chance that he'll hold that against you and you'll break up.
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I was a bit ratchet earlier in my life, mainly in campus, and I got into wrong crowds and relationships. I ended up having multiple relationships and three abortions, that was like six years ago; before I decided to practice secondary abstinence.

I also got saved and I have tried to live a good Christian life since then. I met my boyfriend in church two years ago and recently he has been talking about marriage and a future together. He is saved.

I want to be open about my past so there are no bad secrets between us that can pop up in future, but

I am afraid this will ruin everything for me. I need help.



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