In Summary
  • My girlfriend chats privately and thereafter deletes messages and call logs.
  • I asked her about it, but in response she said that I am doubting her and claims she is doing nothing wrong.
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Hi Brenda,

I came across your comments on how to handle relationships, and I have realised it’s time I just share my issue.

My girlfriend chats privately and thereafter deletes messages and call logs. I asked her about it, but in response she said that I am doubting her and claims she is doing nothing wrong. She said I should stop snooping and just trust her. But I am starting to mistrust her because she deletes all the private chats and call logs. She also said that I should inform her whenever I want to visit her at her house; that I should stop going whenever I want.

She says I should learn to trust her and if I push her she will do the old things she used to do.

At times when I confront her, she cries when she is explaining everything to me. This makes me feel I am on the wrong.

Kindly advise. What should I do?

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